DaDMuM

by Brad Kearns

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June 12, 2019June 12, 2019

Bounce with the Vuly Ultra Large Trampoline

May 16, 2019May 16, 2019

Being a big brother can be really unfair..

May 16, 2019

We can be really tough on him..

February 19, 2019February 19, 2019

Lulla Doll: my genuine review

April 13, 2018April 13, 2018
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So you want to be a blogger

September 13, 2017September 13, 2017

Her camera roll tells the story of their lives

September 13, 2017September 13, 2017

Our day doesn’t end when we get home from work 

September 13, 2017

It’s 2017 and that’s just what relationships are nowadays

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I wear my caps backwards. I run around and dance like an idiot with them. I get hurt doing stupid things and I get in trouble for always trying to make fires just before bedtime so we can all stay up late. I love movie days where we put the mattress up and eat popcorn and I love playing video games with them. Every week I ask them if they want to go kayaking with me and every week they say no. On Mondays I put my white collar back on and run from meeting to to meeting in the professional world. But as much as I love my work and career, this right here is where I’d rather be. With my backwards cap and my boys. #dadlife
For every few hundred messages I get from women. I’ll get one from a man. It usually starts out with “my wife tagged me in one of your posts yesterday”. And 12 paragraphs later he’s just poured his heart out. He’s not looking for advice. He’s not looking for attention and he’s certainly not looking for my sympathy. He’ll start referencing things I wrote hundreds of posts ago which tells me he basically sat for hours just reading. Looking for little things to show him it’s normal. That his relationship is normal. I’m not telling you this to float my boat. I’m telling you this because the men who message me like that have been building that up over so many years, that when they feel like they have someone to talk to about it; they will. And it will all come out at once. He does have feelings. He does process things. He does hear what you say. And when he feels safe. When he isn’t scared of judgement. And more often than not, when he isn’t being asked; he’ll talk about it. Put things in front of him. Don’t ram it down his throat. Send him links; show him pages; tag him in groups. He won’t use his phone like you. He won’t actively look for advice like you. But if something catches his attention, it can change his world. On the back-end of Men’s Health Week, while we’re taking about mental health; I just wanted you to know that. Don’t get so caught up asking him to tell you that he tells nobody #mensmentalhealth #talk
The date night is over. Teddy ruined it. I hope everyone without commitments trips over
Tonight we’re going on a date. I don’t know where. I don’t know what we’ll do. But what I can tell you is that she will want share plates and I won’t and we will remember why we were never really a true match #datenight #handsoff
I’m a solid 6.5/10. I was in much better shape before though but we got commitments n shit. But you see I give her a few sips of “Me time” and I’ll get some real Me Time nomsayin? Lemme tell ya she be pinching this tush all the way up the stairs. Then we get into the bedroom and the baby wakes up so fuck my life. @mamawineco helping husbands attempt to get lucky since 2018. #partner #legsfordays
I wish I got to hear what she has to say next month. But in an interstate convention centre hall full of strangers listening; I know she’d still be most uncomfortable talking in front of me. It’s because I like public speaking and this one’s not about me. So while I might not get to watch it first hand. I’ll certainly make the trip down to cheer her on. It’s that willingness to be vulnerable for the sake of others that’s one of her best qualities. I hope you enjoy the ‘You by Mel Watts’ panel babe. And whilst I may not get to listen, just know this husband will be in a back room somewhere nervous for you but proud as fuck #proud #youbymelwatts @melwatts @mrsdadmum
When your wife signs you up to trial the new Peckish crackers and they actually are as puffy and light and crispy as they say. Available at @colessupermarkets and local independent stores #peckish #peckishpartner #ThinnerLighterCrispier
Mirage and a French bulldog. I wonder what the real men are doing today... Fuck my@life. Thanks @mrsdadmum for this amazing life #dadlife #gangsta
When they should be in bed but they get back up and you get a 1on1 play. This kid is gorgeous

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